Spirit Day to honor recent homosexual suicide victims
In the wake of several suicides by gay teens, a teenage girl from Canada sent out a call for a worldwide lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Spirit Day. Posted and re-posted from blogs to Facebook to other social networking sites, her call for remembrance spread across the Internet in a matter of days.
With the use of her Tumblr account, the announcement asks people to wear purple on Oct. 20 in memory of those bullied and harassed for their sexual orientation.
In response to recent suicides, Spirit Day aims to raise awareness of harassment against the LGBT community. Supports are urged to wear purple on Oct. 20.
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The Tyler Clementi tragedy at Rutgers University was the most widely reported of the suicides. Clementi jumped off the George Washington Bridge three days after footage of Clementi’s sexual encounters from a webcam were streamed across campus.
Sex advice columnist Dan Savage, will be visiting the Student Center Ballroom Oct. 13 at 7 p.m.
“There are accomplices out there: uncaring teachers, criminally negligent school administrators, classmates who bullied and harassed Tyler,” said Savage. “ ‘Christian’ churches and hate groups that warp some young minds and torment others, politicians on the right and left who exploit and perpetuate anti-gay prejudice, perhaps even Tyler’s own family.”
In addition to remembering the lives lost, Spirit Day also seeks to raise awareness of problems that arise from bullying based on sexual orientation. Though some students may have dodged bullying in their middle and high school years the taunts and pain are all too real to those who were forced to face it.
“For about a year or two in high school I had a few jocks that would shout gay, queer, and fag a couple times a week,” junior Eric Kiturkes said.
This summer the Gay Lesbian and Straight Education Network published their 2009 National School Climate Survey on the bullying of gay teens. The survey of 7,261 middle and high school students found nearly 9-out-of-10 LGBT students experienced harassment at school.
In the past year, nearly two-thirds felt unsafe because of their sexual orientation. Nearly a third of LGBT students skipped at least one day of school in the past month because of concern for their own safety.
Some schools are working towards making it right. In response to one suicide, the Tehachapi, California Unified School District with the city’s police department announced it will hold an assembly on tolerance.
Some wish the school district would focus on acceptance over tolerance, but students and teachers don’t have to wait to educate themselves on these sensitive issues.
“Simply have teachers being observant and teaching them how to intervene would be a start to ending [this bullying],” said Kiturkes. “Teachers are all too often silent, because they don’t know or don’t feel comfortable stepping in to say something. Or they let their own feelings get in the way and choose to ignore it because they don’t agree with it.”
Gay rights groups from across the country have joined in, addressing the recent suicides.
“Words have consequences, particularly when they come from a faith leader,” said Joe Solmonese, President of the Human Rights Campaign. “When a faith leader tells gay people that they are a mistake because God would never have made them that way and they don’t deserve love, it sends a very powerful message that violence and/or discrimination against LGBT people is acceptable.”
“We need to learn wmore. And more charges need to be brought,” Savage said. “Not just criminal charges against a couple of stupid teenagers who should’ve known better but didn’t. But, ethical charges need to leveled against adults and institutions that knew better but didn’t care.” __








by WonderGoon
I, for one, will be wearing purple on 20 October to show my support for freedom and equality.
Until All Are Free,
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by Saddened
I too will be wearing purple, I am sooo saddened by the recent suicides of our youth……and the hate crimes of recent. When will we as a planet get a grip on reality that we are all different.
Flag for moderationby Jessica Cruz
I will be apart of this event too.
There shouldnt be any hatred over ones sexual orientation.
Im also making an announcement about ‘Spirit Day’ to the school that i go to..
Love is love no matter what.
-jkc.
Flag for moderationby z
Please update this, it is not just 7 boys now… I believe the count is up to 8, don’t leave out Zachary Harrington please.
Flag for moderationby mollie
The count is up to eight. Zachary Harrington also needs to be included. The hateful bigotry in Oklahoma led him to end his life after a heated city counsel meeting. He had also been bullied for years. At OU we are having a candlelight vigil to remember all those that have been tortured for being who they are.
Flag for moderationby amy
Great article, but please be aware that the use of the word “homosexual” in the headline sounds outdated and right-wing. Saying “gay” or “queer” is much more appropriate.
Flag for moderationby Jon
More appropriate? Homosexual is just fine for the world to read. Gay and queer are words used by haters. Why speak in the language of those who bullied the suicide victums?
Flag for moderationby Jon
I, and all of my close friends will be wearing purple. We dont care who you are or what you are…to us, your human and thats all that matters!
J.T.
Flag for moderationby Brittany McMillan
There have actually been about 10 or 11 suicides including 2 girls now too. The summary has been changed as well. (:
It’s been decided. On October 20th, 2010, we will wear purple in memory of the recent gay suicides. Many of them suffered from homophobic abuse in their schools or in their homes. We want to take a stand to say that we will not tolerate this. Purple represents Spirit on the LGBTQ flag and that’s exactly what we’d like all of you to have with you: spirit. Please know that times will get better and that you will meet people who wi…ll love you and respect you for who you are, no matter your sexuality. Please wear purple on October 20th to remember all the lives of LGBTQ youth that have been lost due to homophobia.
Thank you for your participation.
Flag for moderationby concerned
I live in an isolated community in the Canadian Arctic, where I am an administrator of a high school. This idea has reached all the way up here to students in the far north. I am proud to say students in our school have promoted this idea and we will be wearing purple on October 20th to honour the lives lost due to homophobia.
I am so pleased to be a part of such a positive initiative. I hope this brings a loving spirit to those who question their identity, and also to those who bully them. Live and let live; love and let love.
Flag for moderationby Linden
I too will be wearing purple on the 20th, I have talked to many people about it and it looks like there’s gonna be a lot of purple in Kelowna, B.C on the 20th.
Flag for moderationby Sympathic
I don’t have many purple clothes in my wardrobe – though I have been brought up to be very Catholic, I respect gays and lesbians alike. Note to anyone who is harassed because they aren’t ‘straight’. Don’t let anyone convince you that you’re ‘queer’. P.S. So what if you are?
Flag for moderationby Chrystal Grant
This is to all the people that have been judging ppl based on race accent culture and even lifestyle choices.
Just in the past year I have seen the headlines on news channels and news papers “teen bullied to death”
I mean what has the world come to. Since when is it illegal to love, to be black Hispanic or white, to love whoever u want to love?
I believe people r entitled o their own opinion but I also believe that we all have equal rights!!!
I am white and I am also bi. IDC if who u love I will love u n e ways!!! Kiss my butt if u don’t like it! I am proud of who I am.
I will be showing my support by sporting my peurple at school! I love each n every one of u. B pround of who u r and please if u witness bullying or if u r bullied DO NOT be afraid to let someone know!!!
BORN GAY FOLLOW THE RAY, BORN STRAIGHT REFUSE TO HATE!!!!!!
Flag for moderationby Dianne
Count me in! My sister alerted me to this happening on Oct. 20th via Facebook- when I brought up the page I was sitting with my husband,just ordered dinner…took a look at the page..and cried.No one has the right to tell anyone how they should live their life or who they should be. Every single person- Gay,Lesbian,Bisexual,Transgender and straight is a child of God. It breaks my heart to know there wasn’t someone they felt they could turn to for help and becuase they coudldn’t we lost some beautiful people. So I will proudly stand up for all the victims and wear purple,use my voice to make a difference and hope that by doing so I can help someone know they are indeed loved.
Flag for moderationby Gale Johansen
It is the loses of these young people and their potential that is intolerable, NOT THEIR SEXUALITY! How dare anyone, in any position of authority not intervene when they see someone, anyone, for any reason being bullied or harassed. EVERY SINGLE PERSON SHOULD BE RESPECTED, ACCEPTED AND APPRECIATED AS EXACTLY THE PERSON THEY ARE! No one should ever, in a civilized society, fear for their safety in any place or situation because someone else doesn’t approve of who or what they are and we must work to make that a reality. Yes, please wear purple and be prepared to tell people why you choose to do so to honor not just the loss of these precious young people but to make the ABSOLUTE STATEMENT THAT NO ONE SHOULD EVER HAVE TO ANSWER IN FEAR TO ANYONE FOR WHO AND WHAT THEY ARE. May these young people be remembered forever and may we all work to insure they will be the last ever that must be remembered because of intolerance. Blessed be.
Flag for moderationby kk
i will be wearing purple for all he kids who have committed suicide as a result of being bullied – for being gay, lesbian bisexual or trans, or black or fat or mohawk — or anything that is “out of the ordinary”. i will be thinking of all of you who suffer and have no place to go to.
Flag for moderationyou all must know that this will change and you can be proud of who you are.
by ari
ima wear purple an spread it to all my friends an try to make it a holiday fro my school
Flag for moderationby Mimi
I will be wearing purple for sure. For those that were humiliated or bullied, etc., into thinking this was the only way. For those who have parents that still believe that being gay is a ‘lifestyle choice’ and shut their beloved child out of their lives. Shame on you! NO ONE chooses to feel the pain of being different, of trying to find others to talk to, share things, with, etc., only to be humiliated, made to feel unecessary shame and pain of not quite fitting in. I am the mother of two sons ~ one gay, the other not. My gay son still loves me even though I’m straight. I have people that still ask me how I dealt with having a gay son. I simply tell them that he has to deal with me being straight; that usually shuts them right up!
Flag for moderationby GayasylumUk
GyassylumUk and all our members , who have been requested to do so will.
Flag for moderationAll our clients and asylumseekers who we represent most definately will tto make our solidarity for the tracic loss of those who have been bullied for their sexuality.
Discrimination has many faces and homphobia MUST be stamped out at all costs as does ignorance to allow EVERYONE regardless of their sexuality tolive their lives without discrimination and predicuce, for Equality is a fundemental right, by the mear fact that we are born Human.
by Ms. Cain
great I’m on board. I will email some of my friends.
Flag for moderationby ABC
I am definitely wearing purple. I am sickened by all the hate these days and I want to make a change. Live long, the colour purple! ;)
Flag for moderationby Valerie Burnett
What to wear to work tomorrow? The purple sweater, the purple blouse or the purple t-shirt to show my support. Perhaps black slacks, jacket and accessories to show I mourn alongside the family and friends of the young people we’ve lost so tragically and needlessly.
Flag for moderationby PrincessFifiTrixibelle
Keep hope alive!
I am a straight, heterosexual woman and respect the right of ALL people to express their sexual orientation as they see fit.
No teen, child or adult should be bullied, harrassed, taunted, vilified and have their civil rights violated with “hate speech” or gay bashing.
As a straight woman who digs MEN, I know it is my responsibility to SPEAK UP for my brethern who are LGTB, lesbian, gay and bi-sexual.
Love has no gender and there is so little love in the world – if two consenting people decide to have erotic and romantic relations with each other….who are we to judge?
Wherever you find love – embrace it.
Don’t put others down because they are different than you.
God Bless America and defend other people’s civil liberties.
As a straight woman, I have spent time in the homosexual community and found them to be an honorable people.
No homosexuals ever did my harm.
For the record – I don’t like violent, domineering, “macho men” and that is shameful behavior. As a heterosexual, I can tell you that there is PLENTY of sexual misconduct, decadent debaucher and wierd crap done in straight discos, bars and in the heterosexual “clubbing crowd”.
Straight people can “scumbag it” when they are horny. Straight people can do orgies and sodomy. The majority of pedophile child molestors are middle class, white men and HETEROSEXUAL.
It isn’t gay people molesting children, but there are a LOT of straight people tormenting under age minors. There are a lot of ignorant homophobes who are wrongly convinced it is homosexuals out there molesting kids.
Do some empirical, academic and dispassionate research about the issue of pedophila. Yes, there ARE some homosexual pedophiles – but the majority of child molesters are white, middle class, HETEROSEXUAL people – both women and men abuse kids.
So lighten up, educate yourself and let homosexuals have the same civil rights guaranteed under the Constitution, Bill of Rights, Declaration of Independence.
God bless and keep hope alive!
Princess Fifi Trixibelle
Flag for moderationby angie b
our whole family will be wearing purple. thank you for posting this
Flag for moderationby Felicia
i’m wearing purple :)
Flag for moderationby lexiee
me and my friends will be wearing purple today.We have already told many of our fellow classmates what today represents and why it is soooooooo improtant! many of our teachers have also joined and discussed this subject today. i hope many homophoebic people realize what thier ignorance has caused i myself am bisexual and i pray for those who are still bullyed and their families
Flag for moderationby Sam
As for me and my house, we do serve the Lord. Jesus taught us to love one another as He has loved us. He knew that we are all sinners and He showed us that only by sharing His Love could we be saved from the evil ones that persecute us. Please pray for your bullies; that they may come to know the Love of God, our Father and His Son, Jesus Christ. There are Christians that love you and can help you; no matter your race, sexual orientation, heritage or past. Everyone has value in the eyes of our Lord. Do not give in to the temptation that suicide is an easy way out. There is none. Only by facing your fears will they go away.
Flag for moderationI believe that “You can do it and He can help!”
by Jeff
Its to bad that people cannot accept a person for who they are and whats inside them. We need to learn to love all as we love ourselves.In the pass months eleven young people have committed suicide/ beceause of homophobic abuse in there every day life. Lets pray for these familys and all who need our prayers, in dealing with this critical situation. Keep the faith.
Flag for moderationby Jacky
I am wearing purple today. (:
Flag for moderationYou know who else wanted gays out of the way?
Hitler.
FFS, people need to know that LOVE is LOVE.
I don’t think it’s very “Christian” like to bully kids to the point of suicide.
I also don’t think it’s very “Cristian” like to bully “God’s” creation.
Juss sayin.
by candii famous
i wore my purple today, to support all the LGBT, to show love and care for the ones that have passed,
Flag for moderationand to stand up for what i believe in because i will not be pushed around or brought down by haters.
by Keith Epley
“Christ was evasive when questioned. Let those without sin cast the first stone.” E. M. Forster Please, please, please do not let anybody, particularly the debased, have the most precious part of you—your life, happiness, and being. That the pathetic so-called Christians can only remember crucifixion from the Logos doesn’t mean that you have to dignify their bloodthirst. Get them back—read poetry, listen to Beethoven, dance the rainbow, and enjoy sex and being gay even more. Their misery is no concern of yours. And those who committed suicide: “Flights of angels sing thee to thy rest,” you “sweet princes.”
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